Im sorry you dont feel like becoming a part of the community.
but truth be told, that what this forum typicly is, a community, and just as in any productive community, you give some, you take some, you share.
noone here is paid for the advice they give, or the experience they offer here. This is all given from one member to another of the "community" hoping that the reciever of the info will be able to use it and maybe be able to help others.
If a member who joins here is not willing to be forthcoming with common courtesy, why should other members be forthcoming with information?
hopefully you will change your mind and stick around and maybe offer some assistance to others as you request assistance from them.